Re: recent events
- Posted by Chris Bensler <bensler at MAIL.COM> Mar 28, 2000
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Mike nelson writes: >I have read the recent series of posts/flames with intense >discomfort and >dismay. The personal attacks have got to stop and got to stop >now. First, >I apologize to Jok3r for my attacks on him as a "cracker"--for >the record, I >don't recant anything I wrote, but the fact that I wrote it to >the list >rather than by private email. >Some members of the list may be inclined to dismiss what I have >to say >because I have myself transgressed--so be it. The fact that I >too am wrong >doesn't make flame wars right. We as a group are hurting too >many feelings >and losing too many members. The list seems to be no longer >about >principles but about personalities--we seem to have opinions >about each >other's motives, intelligence, integrity, and programming >skill. We are >killing this wonderful community. >For my part, I refuse to continue to harm the Eu community. I >have set the >following code of civility for myself: >1. This list is about the Euphoria programming language--all >else (other >languages, belief systems, lifestyles, morals, values, etc.) >are outside >issues. If I have an opinion on an outside issue, I will keep >it to myself >or express it by private email. >2. I will debate any Euphoria issue freely and fully according >to my >convictions. If this causes me to attack a Euphoria idea or >program, I will >do so but will NOT attack the proponent of the idea or the >programmer. >Doubtful cases will be resolved in favor of silence. >3. I will not attack or even question anyone else's >intelligence, >integrity, morality, beliefs, motives, or programming skill--no >matter what >my private opinion is. >4. If my intelligence, integrity, etc. is attacked I will >defend myself but >not reply in kind. >5. Should I transgress these guidelines, I will issue an >immediate and >entire (no self-justification or excuses) public apology to the >offended >individual and to the list. >It is my sincere hope that others will adhere to similar >standards of >civility. >As for the exchange between Everett and Rob--it is tragic, and >I can't agree >with either of you about it. I will say no more publicly. >Rett, sometimes you inspire me and sometimes you piss me off-->but you always >make me think and I value that--you have my email, please use >it. >For anyone who wishes to discuss this topic or any other matter >privately my >email is >mike-nelson-ODAAT at worldnet.att.net >-- Mike Nelson Well put Mike. I think your rules should be mandatory to the use of the list. I myself am quite new at it, and am still learning to hold my breath. Maybe another good suggestion for RDS would be to add a DEBATE forum where users could vent (RULES still applying). This would probably be done best with a RT chat forum with a voluntary operator to keep things civil and uphold the rules. Though I don't know if there are enough active users willing to participate as well as congregate at the same time. It's difficult to express yourself properly through a letter 'cause everyone interperets it differently. In any case the debates NEED to be seperated from the EU msg list if the list is to be useful as a learning aid. This msg is a good example. It's pretty amazing that my one post ('Any Ideas?') has evolved into this! In general, it defeats the purpose of the list. A least you made your own post. -- Chris Bensler ______________________________________________ FREE Personalized Email at Mail.com Sign up at http://www.mail.com/?sr=signup