An apology
- Posted by "Boehme, Gabriel" <gboehme at POSTOFFICE.MUSICLAND.COM> Nov 15, 1999
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I once read somewhere -- Reader's Digest, most likely -- that we should always make our words soft and sweet, because we never know when we might have to eat them. The current taste in my mouth would perhaps suggest that I choose my words with a bit more care. Our words and actions function as a mirror, reflecting upon who we are. Some of us -- myself, for example -- are not nearly as tactful or intelligent as we often like to think we are. If we are paying attention, our words and actions keep us honest, and perhaps point the way to self-improvement. Or, at the very least, self-restraint. I have recently noticed that my words are at their most tactful when I do not speak them. Or, to put it another way, I don't always know when to keep my mouth shut. It's one thing to be told this occasionally by family or friends, but it's quite another thing to realize this on my own. Like any good mirror, our words and actions show us, not what we want to see, but what we really need to see. The problem is that there's nothing forcing us to look into that mirror on a regular basis. Sooner or later, though, something happens which *forces* us to take that look -- and it is at that moment when we have to decide if the face in the mirror is even recognizable anymore. I apologize to all on the list for my thoughtless comments and stupid behavior. In the immediate future, at least, I will constrain myself to Euphoria-related commentary only. Any other topics I will leave to my quote file, which, from the evidence so far, seems to do a much better job of saying what needs to be said. Gabriel Boehme ------- Rely on what someone does, not what they say they do. Robert Fripp -------